Physical beauty can be admired and appreciated. From a male’s perspective, a pretty female feels good to one’s eyes. However being a child of God, we always have to set our boundaries.
The Bible, the Word of God clearly states that we( Jesus followers) should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, so basically there can be NO relationship ( male, female etc) with a female that does not have Jesus as her Lord and Saviour.
This verse is found in 2 Corinthians 6: 14-16
14 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers [do not make mismated alliances with them or come under a different yoke with them, inconsistent with your faith]. For what partnership has right living and right standing with God with iniquity and lawlessness? Or how can light have fellowship with darkness?
15 What harmony can there be between Christ and Belial [the devil]? Or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever?
16 What agreement [can there be between] a temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God; even as God said, I will dwell in and with and among them and will walk in and with and among them, and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.
In my opinion, a female can be pretty, cute and very attractive, but only Jesus can make a person beautiful. Being beautiful is so much more than physical appearance, it’s something deep within, it’s having a beautiful Soul.
From my experience along with my spiritual journey, a Soul can only be beautiful by spending time in God presence as the Holy Spirit sheds the Love of God on our hearts. It’s this shedding of God’s Love in our hearts that makes us beautiful.
Prior this level of my spiritual growth and walk with my Lord Jesus Christ, I had a different impression in regards to having a relationship with a nonbeliever, BUT now I fully comprehend the wise teaching of the Great Apostle Paul.
When a male and female come together in a relationship they become one, intimacy with the opposite sex, is much more than physical, a spiritual exchange of energy takes place, hence one does not want an exchange of energies from the wrong source.
For example, God forbid, a Christian with a witch, the dark energy of the witch will corrupt the light of the Christian.
One of the most important tasks of a Child of God is protecting one’s anointing ( Power of God). This power has to be protected with one’s life, as this POWER can be a Blessing to the World at large and can bring the manifestation of God’s POWER to earth.
God dwells in a pure vessel, I personally do desire to get married, when I meet the right girl who loves God, however one of my heroes of the Bible, the Great Apostle Paul never married.
Having said all of the above, there are girls, females around like Ruth in the Bible, who didn’t know the God of Naomi, but made a full commitment from the heart, that your God ( Naomi’s ) shall be my God.
If someone like Ruth comes around and does a 360-degree turnaround, and is all out for Jesus, one should seek the Lord in Praying & Fasting.
The Anointing must be protected at all cost, we know the stories of Samson, King Solomon, and even King David. ( Take not your Holy Spirit from me)
Knowing Jesus, in my opinion, is the one true LOVE.
Until Next time, Keep Believing, Keep Hoping & Keep Loving.